Gian Gomeshi is in the Canadian news everyday. He has been fired from the CBC due to alleged violence against women in his private life. As you can see on this video clip, he is relaxed and conversational. What’s important here is that when he is in front of an audience he is able to give them what they want and expect, and is able to keep his private worries out of his voice and speaking style. When you are in front of an audience, mentally separate your current worries from the way you relate to your audience. Try it!